Almost a million older people say they feel lonelier at Christmas (based on research by Age UK), and half a million older people can go up to a week without seeing or speaking to anyone.
This Christmas we want to change that, but we need you. We’ve come up with 12 simple things you can do to tackle loneliness, and make everyone feel more connected at Christmas.
We’ll share each of our tips on social media throughout December, and we’d like you to share your own. Use the hashtag #12Ways, and share with us how you’re ending loneliness with festive fun.
Take time to talk
Take the time to talk to an older person this Christmas.You could be doing your shop at the supermarket, at the pub or out for a walk. But just say a simple hello and it could make a difference to someone who’s lonely.
Give someone a call
Take the time to speak to your friends and family that you won’t be with this Christmas. A ten-minute phone call can have a big impact.
Community Christmas
Get in touch with Community Christmas. They can help you to host a Christmas get-together in your community.
Give a neighbour a card
Ring the doorbell and hand a Christmas card to your neighbour. Start a conversation and make a connection.
Abbeyfield Care Homes
Are you worried about being alone this Christmas? Join in the festivities at Abbeyfield care homes. They are opening their doors this Christmas to any older people who want company.
Lend a hand at your local care home
Get in touch with your local care home and ask if they need some support this Christmas. Lend a helping hand with the cooking or even entertaining the residents.
Share a mince pie moment
Bake or buy some Mince Pies and share them with your friends and neighbours at a Great Christmas Get Together. #MincePieMoments
If you’re feeling lonely and want advice
If you’re lonely and want advice and support, download or order Independent Age’s guide to loneliness. It offers simple tips to help you feel more connected.
A spare chair
Do you have a spare chair at your dinner table? Know a neighbour who might be alone? Invite them to join you for Christmas dinner.
#JoinIn
For anyone who’s worried about being alone on Christmas Day, comedian Sarah Millican is hosting #JoinIn. It’s a hashtag for people who want company to chat and connect with each other online.
Invite the neighbours
Hosting a Christmas party? Don’t forget to invite the neighbours. If there’s anyone in your community who might be alone, send them an invite. The more the merrier!
Donate
Donate to The Campaign to End Loneliness. As little as £5 can help us build a country where lonely older people get the friendship and support they need. Together, we can end loneliness.
It’s important to remember that while older people can feel lonelier at Christmas, loneliness happens all year round.
But Christmas is a great time for us to connect with each other. This December, make that moment of connection happen with a lonely older person.
Thanks for taking part, and remember to send us any photos, videos of you getting involved, and send us some of your own tips using the hashtag #12Ways.
This article has had 8 comments
I think you have come up with some really good suggestions – most which I haven’t seen before!
fab
will share this!
Excellent raising awareness comments and suggestions. Thankyou
I also think that anyone musical could maybe share their skill and offer to play a few carols ..
Christmas doesn’t have to be just 1 day so maybe Christmas Eve or Boxing Day gives someone a treat to look forward to
76 year old male graduate bachelor alone in Dunfermline seeks to meet fellow refugees from the festive season who can drive him and other lonely people to beauty spots where he will demonstrate Shoestring Photography with old 35 mm cameras After dark demonstrate how to develop a monochrome film, show slides and colour enlargements and unique models built of recycled materials ,pass round his short stories For more details contact David Seagrave c/0 Dunfermline Library I have great difficulty with computers
I would like to invite someone for Christmas dinner but dint know how to do it
Contact us if you live in the Dumfries area in SW Scotland on 01387 270800 and we can put you in touch with local events and a meal on Christmas Day 2017 in Dumfries for people (all ages) who would otherwise be on their own. Nobody should be on their own at Christmas time.
Feeling alone happens to many people at any age. I’m 44 and moved to a new area. Now I’m 200+ miles from the ones I know. Meeting new friends is hard so any advice for the younger generation would be great help for many I’m sure. I’d like the advice myself.
Many thanks
Karl
Very nice campaign. Can i use picture on my website ? if i like to source ?
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